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Step Parenting

Step Parenting transBecoming a step-parent can be daunting. However, by understanding our own feelings and those of others involved, a difficult task can become a rewarding experience.

Step-parents will have different backgrounds and may be divorced, single or bereaved. Some have their own children and some will be becoming a parent for the first time. All should maintain realistic expectations of their new family life and keep a sense of humour.

Getting into a relationship with someone who has children means you have taken on a 'job lot' and the following pages aim to help you address some common challenges.

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Parentchannel.tv have produced a short video about some of the possible issues and how how to deal with them. 

 

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